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MY EARLY LIFE
I once came across an issue of the
Sydney Morning Herald that had been printed on the day of
my birth. It contained three articles that I found of
interest. One related to a new technology called
"television". Another to the laissez-aller
approach of the Australian state governments towards their
excessive London borrowings that became a major factor in
the looming depression. A third described conditions under
which the correspondent’s father had migrated from the
"Old Country" in the 1850s. He wrote, with much
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"I wonder
what the sturdy voyagers of those days would have
thought of modern conditions of travel and of the people who
so frequently complain of them. It may be said that the two
sets of conditions are not comparable; that the luxuries of
yesterday have become the necessities of today; that the
inventive triumphs of the past half-century have raised new
standards of comfort, and that we are entitled to benefit from
them. No one would deny that, but whether these changes are
entirely good for us, or whether they have destroyed something
of our self reliance, leaving us less hardy and more dependent
on artificial aids to living is at least questionable."
These remarks could well apply with equal
force in our present day and age.
I spent the first decade of my life in the
small country town of Wingham, upstate in New South Wales. I guess that its population would have been in the low 1000s,
but it was the centre of a prosperous farming and timber-getting
area and had been first settled around the mid 19th
century.
It seemed to me, then as well as now, as if
our family lived in harmony with the environment and with
ourselves. I cannot envisage a family where the parents could be
more loving of each other and of their children, or more
respectful and considerate towards each other. Characteristics
that I’m sure we would all speak of our parents.
My brother and I were insulated from the
hardships of the depression years of the 30s. Money was never
plentiful in our home, but it was never permitted to become such
a major issue as seems to be the case so often these days in our
mad rush towards a "consuming" society. My parents
were content with their lot and did not have false ambitions.
We lived in several houses in Wingham –
moving to better quarters as my father progressed in his
employment. The home that sticks most in my memory (perhaps
because we lived there longest) was located at the junction of
two streets, both of gravel surfaces without formed gutters, on
the outskirts of town.
It was clad in weatherboard and had a
galvanised iron roof. (I always liked the soothing sound the
rain made as it played its tune on the roof while I was dropping
off to sleep – do you have similar memories?)
Inside, the walls were of tongued and grooved
boards as were the ceilings. Paintwork was dark. Floors were
mostly covered with linoleum, but a large floral carpet square
graced the centre of the lounge room with its surrounds
varnished black. Few ornaments decorated the walls. A gloomy
description perhaps, but then and there we didn’t think so.
In common with similar type country houses
there were wide verandas with drop-down blinds of canvas to
provide protection from wind and rain. My brother and I slept
out on one beneath mosquito nets.
Most modern wives would shudder at the thought
of working under the conditions accepted by my mother as being
the norm.
Her kitchen was a large room. A pine table set
in the centre was the main work area and where we ate our meals,
except for Sundays. There was a narrow bench along one wall
under the only window where the dishes were washed in a tin tub
– water was obtained from a tank outside. But it was the big,
black, wood burning stove that really dominated the room –
this was the altar before which my mother practiced most of her
chores.
Meat and other perishable food were kept in a
contraption called a "Coolgardie Safe" – there was
no ice for cooling and certainly no refrigeration. The
"safe" was a square box with shelving, its sides were
covered with thin sheets of zinc perforated to allow air to flow
through, and on top was a container filled with water from which
strips of Hessian dangled down. The water seeped into these
strips and ran down the sides. The safe was hung in a breezeway
creating a cooling effect.
It was in this hot kitchen that my mother
spent countless hours, uncomplaining, sweating over the stove as
she prepared meals or pressed clothes with a set of cast metal
irons that were hearted on the stovetop.
We had electricity, but no running water. We
relied on rainwater collected from the roof and stored in large
tanks that also acted as the breeding grounds of tadpoles; so a
spoon was always on offer to ladle them out before drinking a
glass of water.
The house did not have a bathroom. There was a
lean-to shed, made from rough slabs of wood, by the back stairs
that contained a set of concrete tubs for washing clothes and a
round tin bath for us. Hot water was obtained from a copper
mounted over an open fire. The copper was also used on washdays
to boil the family’s clothes.
There was no town sewerage so bodily functions
were performed in a special purpose shed located as far as
possible from the house. It was unlit. Toilet paper consisted of
newspapers cut into squares and hung from a nail on the back of
the door. Use of the "Privy" as it was often called,
could be downright dangerous after dark as snakes often visited
the sheds and the underside of the seat was home to the red-back
and other frightening spiders.
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I
was too young to fully comprehend the disaster of the Great
Depression of the ’30s, but it had its influence on our
family. It caused my father to develop an attitude of mind that
centred on the need for job security and an antipathy towards
all forms of risk taking. His views were so strongly held that
even from our early days he encouraged us to aim for employment
in a safe environment, such as in a bank, an insurance company
or in government as a civil servant. |
What chance do you think
you would stand today in adopting this approach with our youth?
Most probably you would be told with some force to mind your
own business. But, as obedient sons, we heeded the advice and
when our turn came to head out into the unknown territory of
employment we joined banks.
It is now nearly 70 years since those
troublesome times and memories tend to dim. But we should not
forget that at their worst point, one-third of Australian
breadwinners were unemployed and their families subsisted on
dole payments and handouts from soup kitchens. Thousands of
poverty stricken families had to leave their homes because they
couldn’t pay their rent. In Sydney, the Domain park became the
refuge for hundreds, sleeping on benches or bare ground, wrapped
in woollen garments or in newspapers. Shantytowns sprang up
around the city. The Workers’ Weekly of 16/2/1934
recorded one poor devil’s description of his habitation:
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women and children, in our bag humpies in this flea
infested stretch of scrubby sand hills. This camp is two
miles long. Scattered at random, sheltering in the lee
of hillocks of sand and bushes from the southerly
busters that sweep in across Botany Bay, are 129 camps.
Have a look inside the shacks that look so dilapidated
from the road. Bags, these walls, flour bags bummed from
the baker, cut open, re-sewn into squares to fit the
white-anted, second hand timber that forms the jerry
built walls, painted with a mixture of lime and fat
boiled in salt water to make them waterproof. The roofs
are mostly made of scrap sheets of tin rescued from the
garbage tip at Rickety Street dump. The floors are wet
sand, smoothed out and covered with more bags. Fleas?
Millions of ’em. |
But the government of the time did little to
alleviate these conditions. One wonders if those in charge
really understood or cared about the enormity of the problem.
For instance, in the Sydney Morning Herald of 10/6/1931
it was reported that the Governor of New South Wales and his wife had
visited "Happy Valley" in La Perouse. Lady Game is
quoted as saying that she had seen "...one darling little
home in which she would not mind living herself!"
You might well say that the conditions
described pale when placed beside the happenings in some of our
Third World countries today, but when related to the then
population they were significant. Do you agree with me that the
attitude of "government" has not improved much over
the years?
It took a generation for the community to
forget the indignity of the dole queue, the begging and the
breaking up of families as the men folk left the cities to go
"on the track", or else "jump the rattler"
to a far off country town in the vain hope of finding work.
These itinerant unemployed were uncharitably described as tramps
or "swaggies" because they carried their meagre
belongings in a bundle over their shoulder.
My father’s job was secure, although in
common with many workers he had to accept a cut in pay, so we
were not greatly affected. There was always food. Fowls were
kept for eggs and the occasional Sunday roast, vegetables were
all homegrown and we had fruit trees. But there were no
luxuries. For instance, apart from the occasional bag of boiled
sweets slipped in among our weekly grocery order, my father
would bring home a half pound of Rocky Road chocolate on
fortnightly pay-days that we ate with relish. Fizzy drink only
appeared on the table at Xmas and Easter, and Santa Claus wasn’t
overburdened when he crept down the chimney – nevertheless my
brother and I did not feel disadvantaged, but I now wonder what
sacrifices our parents needed to make so that we could have
presents.
It was about this time that we acquired our
first radio set that was proudly displayed on my mother’s
sewing machine below a window. One umbilical cord stretched to a
large battery, another passed through the window to form an
aerial, I quickly found out the meaning of radio waves for we
had to sit close to the set and concentrate as the sounds rose
and fell like the waves on a turbulent sea.
When cricket tests were being played between
Australia and England the radio was popular. I was assured of a
thick ear if I ventured to interrupt and ask my father a
question about the state of play. This brings to mind a story
written by an Australian humorist, Lennie Lower. It was titled
Bradman and the Burglar and went like this: A family was
grouped around the radio, heads lowered, engrossed in the
commentary of a test being played at Lords. Unbeknown to them a
burglar had been silently ransacking the house. A shout went up
from the audience, the burglar dashed in and asked, "What’s
the score?’ The reply came back from those still bowed heads,
"Bradman’s made 200". "Good-oh" exclaimed
the burglar as he quietly slunk off with his bag of booty. Well,
that’s how I remember it. It must have impressed me because
some years later I used the tale for a school essay only to
receive a marking of 1 out of 10. My teacher obviously knew
her Lennie Lower!
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Early in my sixth year, I
enrolled at Wingham Public School in the 1st
class. This school, now called the Brush School, is
located adjacent to the noted Wingham Brush, a heritage
area of virgin rain forest. Over the years, with my mates,
I spent countless hours exploring this bush and sailing
through the air, like Tarzan, on liana vines that hung
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It was at this school that I learned my 3 Rs
– reading ’riting and ’rithmetic, each being drummed into
me and hammered home with repetition and constant practice.
After mastering my ABCs I progressed to three letter words –
"the cat sat on the mat". I was introduced to tables
– twice six are twelve, three sixes are eighteen. I was
told that grass was green and the sky was blue, and met up with
singular and plural – hoof, hooves; sheep, sheep; spoonful,
spoonsfull. All this was chanted aloud, like saying prayers,
but we soon became proficient.
I can never understand why the bureaucracy
chose to make such a mess of our education system, to change a
system that had stood the test of time and was effective. Now we
have children who are computer literate, but cannot spell, add
up or write legibly. I am not averse to change; it is
inevitable, but not change just for the sake of change. Perhaps
you won’t agree with me.
During my Wingham years I could not be accused
of lolling lazily around home after school and certainly I never
used the expression "I’m bored" that we hear from
our young ’uns so often these days. It was my habit to race
home, change my clothes and, armed with a fistful of "poorman’s"
biscuits hot from the oven, to be off playing until darkness set
in, when we dragged our weary bodies home for tea and bed.
We lived close to the escarpment that led
steeply down to extensive river flats fronting the river. This
was one of our most popular play places. The flats were thick
with oak and callistemon trees and were first rate for our games
of cops and robbers, and cowboys and Indians – they provided
an array of cool places to hide in. We built wooden sleds and
careered at breakneck speeds down grassy slopes, miraculously
escaping cracked skulls and broken bones. How fortunate I was to
have such freedom, freedom that would not have been available in
a larger town and is denied present-day contemporaries who, in
any event, would most likely prefer to play computer games
rather than indulge in the rough and tumble of outdoor fun.
The Sydney Harbour Bridge was opened in 1931.
We did not witness the ceremony but, shortly after, when
holidaying in the city, my father walked us across the bridge.
What a thrill, but when boasting about it to my mates at school
I deliberately omitted to tell them how fearful I really felt
when I looked down through the grill of the bridge railing to
the water so far below. I was pleased to have the security of my
father’s hand.
I was never aware of class or racial
distinctions. Certainly I was never told that I could not mix
with this or that fellow. In fact, one of my best pals was the
son of a menial worker who lived close by. I was always made
welcome in his home where I often feasted on slices of bread and
hot dripping. Another pal was the son of the town dentist who’s
father tortured me when he drilled my teeth with his
foot-operated drill. My mother had an aboriginal lady, Bella, to
help with the washing and cleaning. She used to take her lunch
with us while we listened to the community singing broadcast by
radio from Sydney Town Hall.
Our next door neighbours were Gus and Gert
Griffin. Gus operated the only garage in the town and owned a
Buick car. They were good friends and often on a hot and steamy
Sunday would drive us to the seaside. This involved a trip of
some distance and the crossing of a wide river by a manually
operated ferry that carried about six vehicles. There were few
facilities at the beach, but we always managed to find a shady
spot under a grove of leafy casuarina trees. I liked to lie on
my back and watch the parrots hard at work cracking seeds in the
branches above. This was before refrigeration reached country
areas and instead of ice cream we were sometimes treated to
cones of thick yellow custard that was kept cool in an icebox.
The journey home was always a trial. The
problem arose when approaching the river when the ferry traffic
would be banked up for over a mile – everyone wanting to
travel home in the cool of dusk. The delay was expected and
accepted, and the holidaymakers patiently waited their turn to
cross; there were no instances of "road rage", in fact
the evenings became social occasions. The men would stroll back
and forth, smoking their pipes and yarning as they assessed how
long it would be for their turn. Billy’s would be boiled by
the roadside for a cuppa and, if the season was right, mushrooms
would be gathered from the cow paddocks or blackberries picked
from the road verge. And the exhausted kids… They were all
asleep in the cars.
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Each day, as I walked to and from school,
I
passed Moxie’s General Store. Kids these days (and probably
quite a few adults) would have little conception of the
significance of the general store in the social fabric of a
country town. It was a focal point for housewives. A place to be
visited as soon as a country traveller had passed through town
leaving in his wake all sorts of new products, ranging from
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Among friends, these ladies
would chat, compare ideas on the merits of the new goods and in
many cases indulge in wishful thinking about a new dress or hat
for Sunday church.
I recall that it was also a great place to
visit as a child. The store had a special smell, indefinable,
but redolent of a mixture of spicy herbs and polished leather.
The entrance was through double wooden doors
in the centre of the large building – display windows on each
side contained models dressed in ladies’ frocks and men’s
suits with an assortment of other apparel. It was dark inside,
the only light coming from electric bulbs set high up, and this
added to the mystique of the place. The store was divided into
sections, with separate counters for groceries, clothing and
materials, produce, saddlery and tools.
My favourite was the grocery section which my
mother visited each week. This counter, the first you saw as you
entered, seemed to be endless. On it, was a glass case offering
many different cheeses, bacon and the like; next came an
assortment of jars filled with a colourful range of lollies; a
large set of scales with brass weights occupied a central
position and at the far end stood a silver cash register that
sounded a loud bell whenever its drawer was opened.
On the shelves behind, Arnott’s biscuits
were contained in tins that carried the distinctive emblem of a
Rosella parrot and a picture of the biscuit type, while below
were a series of wooden bins for flour, sugar and rice. All
items were in bulk and I marvelled at the skill of the
assistants who always seemed to place the right weight in brown
paper bags.
The assistants were neatly dressed, with
starched aprons, and very respectful as Mr Moxie spent much of
the day walking around the store talking to customers and seeing
that they were served properly. He was a kindly old man who
patted my head as he passed and made sure that a small bag of
sweets went with our order.
Talk of food brings to mind Christmas, a time
for great expectation. As children, we not only looked forward
to the presents, but also to the meaning and celebration of the
Day and, of course, to the wonderful Xmas dinner. I would like
to share a typical experience with you.
After the excitement of present unwrapping we
dressed in our best clothes, went to Church and afterwards did
not stray far from the kitchen where my mother was creating
miracles. The oven was at full blast roasting a pair of roosters
– I’m sure that her pleasure in preparing such a feast
outweighed the oppressive conditions of the mid-summer
temperature that was accentuated by the heat of the stove.
The table was clothed in the best Irish linen
that had been starched and ironed until it was shining white and
as stiff as a board. It was piled high with food – from roast
and vegetables down to nuts, ripe for the crushing, and
cherries, fresh and stewed. The good cutlery and china appeared,
crisp napkins, rolled carefully, sat in silver serviette rings,
and pepper and salt containers sat astride a crockery camel
figurine that I had given to my mother. Two cut glass goblets
and a frosted bottle of Resch’s Dinner Ale sat beside my
father’s table setting and a bottle of sparkling home made
ginger beer was there for we young ’uns. A large vase of red
and yellow roses was in the table’s centre.
At last, we were seated, impatient with
expectation, while my father carved the poultry. Mouth-watering
smells kept me silent as, sad to say, I gave little thought to
the less fortunate.
Truly, it was a day that we looked forward to
right from the day after Xmas. But, lest you misjudge us, I must
add that it really was the one time in the year when the family
was indulged in such a way.
I would have been five or six when the
"talkies" came to Wingham. In those times public
facilities in small country towns were the venue for a variety
of social gatherings and the newly completed Memorial Hall,
where the pictures were shown, was also used for dances, wedding
receptions, school concerts and the occasional play. The
building had an impressive façade, but the internal fittings
did not match the exterior and provided only minimal comfort.
Seats were wooden, without padding or arm rests, and the
atmosphere was stuffy as doors and windows were kept closed to
keep the hall in darkness for the movies.
However, any discomfort was totally ignored by
the audience as we sat captivated with our eyes glued to the
screen. We were entertained by the genius of Charlie Chaplin,
the humour and buffoonery of Laurel and Hardy and the Keystone
Cops, the spookiness of Boris Karloff and the bravery of those
intrepid cowpunchers – Buck Jones, Tom Mix and Will Hart.
There was always a serial, Spiderman, Rin Tin Tin the Wonder Dog
or some other exciting tale with its cliff hanger ending that
guaranteed your return to the next episode.
During interval, there was a mad rush as the
kids crushed into the small shop in the foyer clamouring to
spend their pennies. My choice, nearly always, was a threepenny
"Smack", a chocolate-coated ice cream enclosed in
paper that I ate by progressively peeling away the wrapping.
I always left a matinee in a high state,
especially if I had just watched a cowboy film. As I flew home
through the paddocks I would don the mantle of my white-hatted
hero, flog my horse into a plunging gallop and, with six guns
blazing, chase after the dastardly villains. Do you remember
"making believe" when you were young? I have always
marvelled at the capacity of the young to make believe, to
become totally engrossed in an imagined world and in an imagined
character. Some of us have carried this wonderful talent into
adulthood!
When we moved on to Macksville the
circumstances were different. We were older and we went to the
movies as a family, on Saturday nights, and in a proper cinema.
Towards the end of the ’30s one of the cinematographic
gimmicks was termed 3D. Patrons were given special celluloid
glasses that were supposed to enable you to view a movie in
three dimensions. It was a funny sight with everyone wearing
these colourful goggles and looking so self-conscious.
The inventiveness of the ice cream makers had
also advanced. We now had the "Cream Between", an ice
cream slice of three colours and flavours sandwiched between two
biscuit wafers. You had to be adept and a fast eater as the
filling quickly softened and when you bit into the biscuit there
was a high risk of spillage. I collected many a short arm jab
from my father for being a messy eater.
I guess that I accepted the movie show much
the same as my sons viewed the introduction of television and as
their sons have now adapted to the computer. But they are all
quite different forms and each has tended to insidiously move
further towards the situation where more leisure time is spent
in isolation. This is in marked contrast to the life and times
of my parents when social intercourse involving all family
members (with children seen but not heard) was the norm rather
than the exception.
- Roger Cox
Canberra, ACT, Australia.
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