However, I do have a Downs Syndrome cousin (now
18 years old).
Jamie's condition was a difficult challenge for
his family to accept when he was born. He required multiple
open-heart surgeries (as almost all Downs children do) and many
evaluations of his capabilities because they vary greatly
between Downs kids.
But Jamie is the happiest person on earth and we
wouldn't want to change a thing about him now. His most
distinguishing qualities are his ability to imitate and to
obsess over his favorite things: Scottish Bagpipes (the local
piper, Shane, is his hero), Rudolph the Red-Nosed Reindeer (I've
been forever out of favor for deer hunting when I was younger),
and his Uncle Donnie - just about anything about Uncle Donnie.
His ability to imitate Donnie is uncanny. He uses the same
expressions; adjusts his cap the same way; even talks to people
with the same attitude. Most impressive, however, is the way
Jamie can reproduce Donnie's posture. It's talent...pure and
simple.
Jamie is a constant reminder of the joy found in
the innocent and simple things in life. He's like a filter,
through which only good things pass. When you watch him interact
with people, you feel a sense of relief and clarity; you're
reminded that the complexity of the world and its people can't
prevent a smile from gracing the face of a child - no matter how
old. Jamie talks to your inner child, and you just can't help
but to smile with him.
My younger sister, Lynn, was surprised by the
intensity of my feelings. She wrote to say that she never knew how I'd felt about Jamie. She was extremely close to
him herself, but assumed I felt much differently. She was very much impressed by the way I expressed the
way I felt about him, which is exactly the way she feels too.
Jamie is an angel to us all.
- David Ross
Calgary, Alberta, Canada.